If you find it difficult to converse with your guy you might want a handy list of things to talk about with your boyfriend. Unfortunately, I’m not sure such a list exists or would even be helpful since everyone is different and the things you and your boyfriend should be talking about are your relationship and other general subjects that you both have an interest in.
Hopefully, you and your guy have at least a few things in common, things that both of you enjoy doing. It’s kind of boring to just talk, or listen, to something that only one of you knows anything about.
It’s funny. People always ask the question ‘what makes a relationship last’? It’s easy, you pick the right person. That sounds so simple, and it can be, but so many people will settle (even though they’d never admit it in a million years). If you hold out for someone with who you are truly compatible with, the conversation will take care of itself. When you both like, respect, and are interested in each other you’ll never run out of things to share with each other. Having things in common is the best way to keep the conversation flowing.
When you want to engage your boyfriend in conversation just talk to him about something he has an interest in. Does he have a favorite sport or sports team? If so, did they recently have a game? Ask him about that. You can talk to him about his favorite band or favorite type of music. What hobbies does he have? These are all things that the two of you can talk about. For the most part, they should be easy conversations to have.
One type of conversation that may not be quite so easy is any of those that revolve around feelings, like asking your guy how he feels about you or your relationship. You may have an easier time sticking with sports!
If the two of you have a relationship that is based on at least a few mutual interests, you can talk to him, and have him talk to you, about something that you both love. If the two of you share any passions this is the best thing to talk about since neither one of you will be bored talking about something you have no interest in. Nothing is harder, and frankly, many guys won’t even bother trying, than to talk about something you have absolutely no interest in. That’s why it’s so important to not even get involved with someone if you don’t have any common interests. The relationship will most likely fizzle in short order without some common ground.
Hopefully, some of these things can help you out when you are searching for things to talk about with your boyfriend about. And, if you are currently between relationships, keep these things in mind when you start dating someone new. If the two of you have things in common, everything, especially conversations, will be easier!